Mossy Feathers (She/They)

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Cake day: July 20th, 2023

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  • I used to think I’m a guy, I like many masculine things like motor sports, fixing cars, playing shooters. Things that typically boys like and I have no desire to wear girly clothes or anything like that.

    Okay, first of all, girls can like stuff like that too, so that doesn’t necessarily mean anything.

    Now, as to your question, possibly. I’m going to throw a bunch of questions at you, but don’t jump to any conclusions until you get to the end of my comment.

    How long have you been feeling this way?

    Is it possible that it’s the novelty and not the affirmation?

    Are there any “girl” things you’ve always thought sounded like fun, but never tried (makeup, painting your nails, earrings, etc)? Why not?

    Why do you think you’re a woman?

    Are you a woman? I mean you say your penis doesn’t disgust you. Do you really want to be a woman?


    Now: how did those questions make you feel? Did you feel guilty? Sad? Annoyed? Angry? Hurt? The intent of those questions was to see what your reaction would be to being doubted or questioned. Whatever you just felt, why did you feel it? Try to trace it back to its source.

    It’s okay if you didn’t have any noticable reaction too. I’m just probing you in a way that’ll hopefully help you figure this out. I can’t tell you whether or not you’re trans, that’s your thing. Based on your experience with your friend, it sounds like you might be, but since this is a new thing for you, I don’t want to push you in a direction you might regret later, you know?

    I think my best advice I can give you is to give it some time and keep exploring. That, and find a therapist who specializes in this kinda stuff so they can help you work out these feelings as well.

    Finally, see if you vibe with this: genderdysphoria.fyi/

    Oh, and it’s totally possible to have a girlcock (sorry for being an asshole earlier, I hope you understand what I was trying to do). Plenty of trans gals choose to keep theirs.











  • I can’t say I’ve had the exact same experience, but I did get picked on by a bunch of “friends” at a birthday party. Tried to play truth or dare and I was a really honest, open kid (mostly), so when it was my turn I said, “truth” and someone asked me if I’d ever kissed a girl, and I said, “no”. They decided that I had to be lying so they asked me a different question, “have I ever had a crush on a girl” to which I also said, “no”. They didn’t believe that either, and one of them jokingly asked, “have you (me being AMAB) ever kissed a boy?” That was coming from a kid in a really conservative Christian family, and it caught me off-guard. The truth was that no, I had never kissed a boy either, but the question made me hesitate. They lept on that.


  • Do I need the sandwich too? If so I’ll give him half (if he asks for it, otherwise I’ll just sit there and eat the whole thing while missing social cues like a dumbass).

    Will I need the sandwich in the near future? If so, then again, I’ll give him half.

    Did I just eat a meal and I don’t need the sandwich now nor in the immidate future? By all means, eat!